Planning a wedding is one of the most exciting milestones in life, and as a wedding celebrant, I’ve witnessed countless beautiful ceremonies where couples unite to start a new chapter together.
Part of this journey often includes the decision to change your name to reflect your partnership. Whether you’re preparing for a wedding, organising a wedding ceremony, or have recently celebrated your special day, understanding the name change process is crucial.

This guide is here to help couples and individuals navigate this important step with ease.
Who Can Change Their Name?
To change your name in NSW, you must:
Be an Australian citizen or a permanent resident.
Have lived in NSW for at least three consecutive months.
Be 18 years or older. For children under 18, a parent or legal guardian must apply on their behalf.
Reasons for Changing Your Name
Marriage: You can take your spouse’s surname or create a hyphenated version without registering the change. This is a common step after a wedding or wedding celebration to symbolise unity.
Divorce or Separation: Returning to your maiden name or a previous name.
Personal Choice: For non-marriage-related changes, you need to register the new name.
Steps to Change Your Name after your wedding
1. Gather the Required Documents
Proof of identity (e.g., driver’s licence, passport).
Birth certificate (if born in Australia).
Proof of residency in NSW (e.g., utility bill, rental agreement).
Citizenship or immigration documents (if born overseas).
2. Complete the Application Form
Visit the NSW Registry of Births, Deaths & Marriages (BDM) website and download the appropriate name change application form. Ensure all sections are filled out accurately.
3. Pay the Fee
The cost for registering a name change varies but typically ranges from $195 to $250. Check the NSW BDM website for up-to-date pricing.
4. Submit the Application
You can lodge your application:
Online through the NSW BDM portal.
By mail (if you’re unable to apply online).
In person at a Service NSW centre.
5. Wait for Approval
Processing times vary but generally take 4 to 6 weeks. If additional verification is required, it may take longer.
Post-Name Change Checklist
Once your name change is approved, update your details with various institutions, including:
Identification Documents: Update your driver’s licence, passport, and Medicare card.
Financial Institutions: Notify your bank, superannuation fund, and insurance providers.
Government Agencies: Update your details with the Australian Tax Office (ATO), Centrelink, and the electoral roll.
Utilities and Services: Inform your phone, internet, and utility providers, as well as your employer and educational institutions.
Tips for a Smooth Name Change Process
Double-check all application details before submission.
Ensure the documents you provide are certified copies if originals are not required.
Keep a copy of your old and new identification documents for reference.

Changing Your Name After Marriage
If you’re married, you don’t need to register your name change. Simply present your official marriage certificate (issued by NSW BDM, not the ceremonial certificate) to update your name on documents and accounts. This is an essential step for couples after their wedding celebration to reflect their partnership.
Changing a Child’s Name
For children under 18, both parents usually need to consent to the name change unless one parent has sole parental responsibility. The process involves submitting a separate application form for minors, along with proof of consent.
Final Thoughts
Changing your name is a deeply personal decision that reflects your identity. For many couples, it’s also a beautiful way to commemorate their wedding and the start of a new chapter together. While the administrative process might feel overwhelming, following this guide ensures a smooth transition.
For more details, visit the official NSW BDM website or contact their support team for assistance.
If you have any questions, or want to know more about the administrative steps to getting married, contact Nicole!
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